Why do woman choose the loser?

Ive been thinking this through for many years now. heres my theory. woman choose the outspoken loser because primal instinct attracts them to the "stronger male". and losers could be viewed as stronger males because they do drugs or steal stuff or dont have a job and therefore are "combative" to the system. also woman are intelligent on manly type things like working on cars or fighting or what ever (generally speaking) so this said loser can easily trick them into thinking that hes good at something or what have you. when the rest of us much better option men are sitting back like wow she has no idea what she is dating. and its kind of funny. its like she just got talked into buying a car that is really a lemon but shes none the wizer.. shes walking around with a retard trying to bite his shoulder the entire time.... oh well...